Life and the unexpected

A little while ago one of my dear friends wife sent a note via facebook to tell me that he was diagnosed with an in operable tumor on the right frontal lobe of his brain. With the option of surgery gone they are going to try radiation and chemo to battle this but it does not look good. They figure it will just give us all a little more time to see him and spend some more quality time with him. This is one of the greatest people that I know. The love that he has for his wife and two sons is love that no one can describe. Yet I sit here writing about his life as we know it ending. His wife has said that there is already memory loss and that he is confused and irratable, he knows there is something wrong but is not quite grasping the situation. If he knew that while I am writing this the tears keep flowing he would scold me so bad. I know for a fact that he would tell me to get over it he has and that he is moving ahead and to not get caught in his draft but to follow and enjoy the time that he still has. Some how I know this is what has to be done yet at the moment it is hard to accept. The prayers are for the family to find the strength to continue and to prepare for the inevitable wether it be a week or year. I hope that god gives me the strength to help in any way I can and to savor each and every moment of the friendship that will soon come to an end. And that is the hardest thing of all. Acceptance...

Sunday

Hi everyone , it is raining and I have the cold from hell. What a way to spend my days off. Well at least I caught up on my school work, well almost. Hope where ever you are it is a beautiful day.
Cindy

Hi hope everyone is having a great week. It is Friday and I am finally posting something. Hope you have a wonderful week.

Hi everyone

Well we have reached day two of having this blog and I figured out how to add a photo and to post something new. I hope you are having a wonderful day it is a beautiful day here, so I hope it is just as nice where ever you are.
Cindy

1st Blog

Hi everyone. Hope you can read this. I will be updating this and adding things to it hopefully a picture will help so you all can see whom you are talking with through out the next 10 weeks. Have a great day and please let me know what you think.
Cindy